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  • I’m black and Bipolar!

    29 Apr 2013
    Being African American, Topic Thought.

    There needs to be a mental health awareness for the African American Community. I hate being judged. I am no different bipolar than I am being a queer. I’m still Domenia Dickey! Geesh! I take meds, they work, they allow me to have a healthy life and a stable life. It’s no different then medication for high blood pressure.

    Almost everyone I know takes meds even my grandma, and no one says otherwise. But when I take my meds it’s a problem and I need to “pray” it away.

    There is no shame in taking them, it doesn’t make me less of a person. Why is the black community afraid to acknowledge the importance of mental health. Parents will not permit their children to see a therapist, my family used to hide my meds from me.

    Every time I take my meds, they say “you don’t need them, it’s in your head.” True, it is in my head which is why I take them.

    I get so annoyed with the black community because I feel as though they support ignorance; and because of that the old and young are perishing. Every time I see a black man, homeless, with schizophrenia; I am compelled to think about the help he could have received when he was younger, but his family just said “no.”

    The black community picks and chooses what they will and will not accept. We can accept our boys wearing their pants to their knees, teen pregnancy, lack of college education, and entitlement attitudes; but we can not accept that bipolar, anxiety, depression, ocd, adhd, mood disorders, eating disorders and much more effects the black community. We are not exempt! By living in denial we are only hurting our community and our youth and young adults.

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  • Foster Care

    23 Apr 2013
    Truth & Foster Care

     Babies, toddlers, pre-teens, teenagers and young adults who are in care across this world who feel as though they are not meant to be a apart of a family; believing that they break up families; thinking they are the problem. This is a LIE! Untrue! Every one wants the babies, but what about us; the:

    – “big kids” the ones with a history
    – mental illness
    – insecurities
    – wanna be thugs
    – outcasts

    What about US! What about US?

    I told my foster mother at the age of 17, that I was a child not meant for a family. I believed I was the cause of hurt, that I bring instability, and break hearts. I had to remind her I’m bipolar, I come with baggage. I am out spoken and I don’t hold back my voice. She didn’t care, I was still taken in.

    We need more of theses individuals. If you can’t be a mom or a dad, what about being a mentor. We need to know that there is something else out there.We need to know that we are not limited by our circumstances. We can live a healthy life, we can attend college, we have a voice and we matter. We need to know at night that:

    -pain
    -tears
    -being misunderstood
    -anger
    -disappointment
    -forgiveness with in ourselves

    will pass away. “this too shall pass” was the words that I held onto, at 21 life is scary, tomorrow I can be homeless, tomorrow I could be alone without help, but I have to believe that “this too shall pass” and there is much more to my journey. I have more teens to connect with, more speeches to prepare for, more souls and heart to connect with.

    What about “US.” What about “US” We need you!

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  • Boston Marathon

    16 Apr 2013
    Topic Thought.

    light

    You will make it through this! You are not alone you have a nation standing beside you, praying for you. You are stronger than you know, you’ll make, you’ll shed tears,you’ll scream, curse God, you will feel fear; this is expected for we are human created and programmed with emotions. No matter what, you’ll make it through this, I won’t stop praying until every heart has been healed and every child can sleep without fear. It may take years, but it will be worth it. You’ll make it, you’ll find strength that you never thought you had, and you are going to change history and the faith of humanity will be restored once again. This too shall pass.

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  • Change of Seasons.

    2 Dec 2012
    Topic Thought., Truth & Foster Care

    The truth is that everyone in your life is there for a season. As we know seasons come and go and so do people in our lives. We will have friends and family members who are meant to be in your life for a certain amount of time,  that can be a few years, a life time, a month or a few days. It’s important to recognize that and to be thankful for them being there and what they have contributed to your life.

    The hardest is when it’s family but it’s true. I always say, be thankful for what they taught you, and the time you spent together and also respect and know that as time continues and you grow, you change and so does others around you. Life is about growth, adjustment, change and developing into the person you were predestined to be.

    You can do all things for I believe God has given you strength to accomplish every obstacle and climb every mountain. You were predestined to do great things and to reach out, to help another individual reach higher heights in their own life.

    I truly believe we do not live life for ourselves. I truly believe we are connected to others for a reason and that reason is to grow! I believe that there are people that we are meant to connect with, and there are people waiting to hear your story, shake your hand, open a door to another area in life.

    So I say trust God (or whom ever you believe in) and know that at every tunnel there is a light and you don’t struggle, cry, or experience life’s journey just because. there is someone who is waiting to hear your truth, there is another person or persons that your are meant to connect with and for the two of you to be an added light in this world to make a better place. There are people who will be against such change, and will try to bring you down, and hurt and attempt to stop you from growing. You will cry, scream, sometimes feel alone abandoned etc..but you have to keep pushing there is more to your life then you can see right now. I promise!

    So don’t be afraid of letting go, even if it’s your mom, brother/sister, best friend, father or grandmother. You have to continue to grow and don’t let anyone stop you. I pray this blog reaches someone and they continue their journey with faith in themselves and their purpose. Seasons change and we grow.

    Love you all!

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